We don’t mind if you let us know if there’s a couple of songs you definitely want us to play, but overall we highly recommend leaving the song choice to the band, we have allowed couples choose the set list in the past and it always ends up being a very mediocre night - scripted, unnatural with no flow.
We know how to work a crowd and we know what songs work best, and when to play them.
Remember your musical tastes will almost certainly be different to your guests, and if you only want us to play the songs you like, it will end up being a very one-dimensional party.
Our advice is, leave it up to the band. We have years of experience and know how to keep your dance floor full all night long.